Category Archives: Wendy Lawless

Chanel on Tour April 15th 7PM Glendale Public Library

Don’t you think we need a Chanel Bonfire Tour Bus?

I’ll work on it.  Maybe add some flames!  In the meantime, you can come see me, ask questions, get books signed and talk about Chanel Bonfire, crazy moms and anything else you like at the Glendale Public Library in Glendale, CA on April 15th at 7PM.

If you can’t make that and your book group is reading Chanel, I’d be happy to arrange a Skype Q&A with you.  Just shoot me an email at chanelbonfire@gmail.com !

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Los Angeles Area Reading and Discussion

Chanel Bonfire: A Memoir

With Wendy Lawless 

Monday, April 15, 7:00 p.m.

Central Library Auditorium
222 East Harvard Street
Glendale, CA 91205
Information: 818-548-2042

Actress and author Wendy Lawless discusses her stunning memoir about her unconventional, heartbreaking childhood with an unstable alcoholic and suicidal mother and the unusual strength that allowed her to rise above it all.

By the time Wendy Lawless turned seventeen, she’d known for quite some time that she didn’t have a normal mother. But that didn’t stop her from wanting one.

Georgann Rea didn’t bake cookies or go to PTA meetings; she wore a mink coat and always had a lit Dunhill plugged into her cigarette holder. She had slept with too many men, and some women, and she didn’t like dogs or children. Georgann had the ice queen beauty of a Hitchcock heroine and the cold heart to match.

In this evocative, darkly humorous memoir, Wendy deftly charts the highs and lows of growing up with her younger sister in the shadow of an unstable, fabulously neglectful mother. Georgann, a real-life Holly Golightly who constantly reinvents herself as she trades up from trailer-park to penthouse, suffers multiple nervous breakdowns and suicide attempts, while Wendy tries to hide the cracks in their fractured family from the rest of the world.

Chanel Bonfire depicts a childhood blazed through the refined aeries of The Dakota and the swinging townhouses of London, while the girls’ beautiful but damned mother desperately searches for glamour and fulfillment. Ultimately, they must choose between living their own lives and being their mother’s warden.

The program is sponsored by the Library, Arts & Culture Department.

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Georgann Rea: “He’s gaslighting me!” From Chanel Bonfire

“Gaslight”, 1944, with Charles Boyer as the evil character trying to drive his wealthy, beautiful but fragile wife (Ingrid Bergman) insane. 


A movie title that Mother turned into a verb when she felt someone – a perceived enemy/tormentor – was out to get her. Which was often.  “She’s gaslighting me!”

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Chanel Bonfire on Dr. Alvin Jones

Tune In Tomorrow April 8th @ 11AM Eastern to WJFK 1580AM and WNEW 99.1FM for…

Dr. Alvin Jones interviewing me about Chanel Bonfire, surviving a mentally ill parent, writing and being a parent without a good role model.  Dr. Jones’ program is on CBS Radio Washington and syndicated nationally.  I’m honored to be among his many influential and thoughtful guests!
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A terrific story from my local paper:

http://www.glendalenewspress.com/news/tn-gnp-0403-a-memoir-thats-hard-to-read,0,6937945.story

Special thanks to Liana Aghajanian for a wonderful write-up.  And don’t forget, I’ll be answering questions, reading and signing books at the Glendale Public Library on April 15th at 7PM.  See you there!

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Juan Carlos: King and Dashing Backgammon Teacher

King Juan Carlos of Spain.

When we met him, he was just a Prince out of power and Franco was still running Spain which is why he had the time to teach Robbie and me to play backgammon at the Marbella Club while Mother was running around with some man or other.

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Thank You to Everyone Who Reads and Reviews

I am always grateful when people read my book and glad when it has touched them or helped them or simply entertained them.  My publisher and book stores and Amazon always celebrate the big newspaper or magazine reviews and that’s great.  But today I’d like to celebrate all the other reviews from Amazon Vine or GoodReads or individual blogs.  I love the fact that people are out there sharing their perspectives and reactions and creating a new and varied conversation.  Thank you all.  Here’s a sample from a very interesting book blog called Bookworm is My Totem:

Monday, April 1, 2013

Chanel Bonfire: A Memoir, by Wendy Lawless. Gallery Books, 2013

‘Chanel Bonfire’ is a tale of growing up with a mentally ill mother who, I suspect, was incapable of love. Her entire life was about manipulating people and seeking adoration, even from children too young to understand. While she wasn’t a wire coat hanger wielding physical abuser (most of the time), she was the master of screwing with minds.
The beautiful Georgann Rea was an extreme example of Narcissism. Her life was one big illusion: that she was loved, that she was rich, that she knew the ‘right’ people, that every man wanted her, that she was young forever. No one was allowed to disrupt those illusions; if one did, they were cut out of her life. One of those disruptions caused her to run away to Europe with her two daughters, severing all contact with their father. Lawless would not have contact with him again until she was an adult. The girls basically raise themselves in a hostile environment. Sometimes the environment was quite luxurious, but it was always a minefield for Lawless, who had to police her every word and gesture to avoid setting off her mother. The two girls counted the days until they graduated high school and could escape.
This sounds like a grim read. In the hands of many writers, it easily could have been. But Lawless has a dry wit, and the book is riveting. I kept thinking to myself that Georgann couldn’t do anything worse, and yet she always did. What amazes me is that the girls turned out well- very well. Rather than damaging their psyches, it almost seems like the trials of their childhood made them stronger. 

 
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